This female friend of mine told me, Yeah, I dress this way to attract a guy, but I want to attract the right guy. I don t want to attract every slob on the street. That s how cleavage works. It s not a smart bomb. It s not a laser-guided weapon. You might hit your target; there s also going to be a lot of collateral damage. You might hit the guy in the Porsche. You re also going to hit the guy with one tooth driving by on the bus.