Everybody has his (her) secrets
Somebody prefer to keep it shortly
Somebody prefer to keep their secrets for long; even for the rest of their lives
Once you decide to keep your secrets untold forever
then you've gotta be careful unless this secret wont hurt anyone
Becz people around you, wife included, might find it out someday and somewhere
As a result it possibly could costs your marriage or even your life
When you are seeing someone outside your relationship or marriage
we would try our best not to be found
In that sense we would be cautious keeping our mouths shut, even having dreams at night. Cause we might, without conscious, call our secret lovers names in sleep at nights
Once I called someone's name in my dream and being heard by my girl
To be honest I didn't even know where the hell did I get that weird name
Becz I dont even know any girls with the name, not even close
Unfortunately she was awake at the time and oevrheard me
Consequently she questioned me in the next morning by saying:
who's that girl with name xxxx?
Jesus Christ~~~
Anyway once you have decided to keep secrets
then you gotta be very careful
becz keeping secrets ain't easy at all